Where is it hidden?

8/5/2014

The something special, the place of fulfillment, operating life with Purpose, that something beyond our wildest dreams, is it in our midst. . .the question. . .

Where is it Hidden? An even better question, how close are we to it?

The Challenge is to continue the Pursuit with Anticipation that it will be located, if we choose not to quit!

When we write goals, when we dream, or when we sketch on everything we own our Vision, for our Journey, I assume that it looks "Fabulous". I assume it is a place filled with laughter, with joy, a fulfillment to our Soul. A place where we operate in our Passion.

You might be someone who has a a message to share, a Cause to Organize and or Support, or just enjoy the art of socializing. In the world of "preneurship" it is the blood flow of what drives our activities and nurtures our creativity. In this arena of "preneurship" whether you are "solo" or "entre", you have so much to give, so much to share and the work, is to connect with those whose lives can benefit from what you have in your goodie bag of uniqueness. The work is to share what service or product you have to offer, what message you want to give to empower and or encourage. In some cases you are just sharing something which can be a Support to numerous others in building their vision.

The "GENUINE" heart does not want to "SELL" anyone, the drive is to "EXPOSE", to "SHARE" what they have found and all the benefits that come along with it. To allow a space, a "FREE ZONE", for others to experience what's being offered, to learn more, so a decision can be made. To decide if this offering is a "Keeper or Not", all without attached strings of obligation. The desire to share something usually comes with the Intent to be an Asset for the lifestyle of others. No One, Including Me, wants to be "SOLD". I just want to experience, if it fits, If I like it, If I have more questions ~ I will ask, If I have a use for it, then I'll buy it. If I don't personally connect with it or find it to be a necessity or even a desirable for my life, but I see the benefits, then I view it as a Resource to put in the file to share with someone I might come across who could benefit from it.

The Equation Should Look Like:

To Expose It + Experience (to try it out or sample it) = "I Buy" or "No Thanks"

If you are sharing what you have via Social Media or in the Marketplace or both;
"Be Mindful" . .that most people recognize "Opportunist" vs. "Genuinist".

Even if you are not out to share a service or product, your message, your words, reveal who you are and what you are bringing to the community around you. Are you an Asset to what you share or a Liability? Does your Language speak Positivity or is it filled with Venom served with a side dish of Negativity? Are you Relaxed or are you Tense with Anxiety which bleeds on to others when you are sharing information? Do you share solutions, options or Do you Spend time tearing down and focusing on the Negatives?

To Outline a few areas to keep in mind, as you are building your life, creating and embracing the moments, connecting with others, all while traveling along this journey:

Consider the following:

Learn the definition of "NO THANK YOU" and Respect that space, just move along and continue to EXPOSE and FIND and CONNECT with those who flow, who connect with what you share.

Be a person who can give an answer, YES, NO, or I'LL THINK ABOUT AND LET YOU KNOW IN #? DAYS" - - AND THEN be TRUE to that, stand behind what you say and Let them know the answer, "YAY or NAY".

Be AVAILABLE, if you have accepted to Learn More or to EXPERIENCE something "BE OPEN", LISTEN and RECEIVE information and not be on Guard or Defensive while Listening or Experiencing it so that you receive the FULL PICTURE in which to make a decision.

Find your core, your gifts, your talents and give them away, when you give, it always returns to your life, I believe 100 fold (100 times what gave) which travels back into your life in many forms and in various places.

We all have different interests, WHAT MOVES YOU, MAY NOT MOVE ME, ALLOW the space to respect that and including the Room to Agree to Disagree.

Operate from "WHO" you are, not playing a Role of Someone Else. People know when you are Wearing a Mask, even if they don't expose you.

Don't live a life of being a Judge and Jury, always telling others what is wrong with them or what they need to change. Spend the energy within and look in the mirror and work on you.

Word of Mouth is powerful, be aware when you are speaking on subjects that can harm someone else, be wise, especially when you don't have all the details about the very thing you choose to speak on.

Be Aware we all have an Experience behind a smile and not to assume what someone else is thinking but to ask and allow the answer without judging.

LESS IS MORE, you don't always have to provide details or an Essay when asked about something.

If you are uncomfortable with answering a question, simply state, "I'm not at liberty to discuss that right now".

LET YOUR ACTIONS reflect what your Words Speak. It is Not What you Say, but What You do that Tells the Truth about your Character.

The World is in search of more who are Genuine, Transparent and a Diamond Quality "Trustworthy". After all, we are a Unique Race, a "Human Race" and we all come packaged with Desires, Dreams, Aspirations, when we are building those dreams it should never be at the expense of someone else being stepped on or being manipulated. We individually are Unique, Our Outlook, Our Views are formed by the Information we receive and by the Environment in which we are surrounded by currently and including from our past.

We are ALL a work in progress and I don't believe that process is ever complete, we are in pursuit of a greater version of who we can be and in a soul search of who we are purposed to be.

I believe every action, every word spoken, is a seed that we plant into the lives of someone else, be it one on one or within a group and that seed will germinate into that soil, into the lives of others in a Positive or Negative way, what we plant with our words, will grow and that reaches into that life and the generations that will follow.

We know there is an element that loves the opposite of every word that is Positive, Empowering, Encouraging, including intent of Encouragement shared in this Blog.

We don't need to spend energy on discussing them or trying to change them. WE are better served to work on the Best Version of Ourselves. When we know who you are, Confidence illuminates from us and spills out around us.

Works on making things happen, you can't build anything beneficial without expecting the company of Sideliners, Naysayers and Opinionators, so don't spend time Debating, Discussing or Persuading them to Join Your Movement. You have too much to do and Time is Priceless, so don't waste it on those who have nothing to do and or Desire Nothing or do not Want to build or strive for anything of Value for Themselves and including joining efforts with Anyone Else who does.

REMEMBER, when, we are in a Dark Room, the Light always shines through. Be the Light, Be the Change you want to see, Find your Core, Your Message, Your Unique Gifts that you can share with the world, with the Community, with your Neighbor and then Share it. What you plant will always grow, if you don't like what you see around you or in you, then make the Change and Become little by little, revision by revision, the BEST VERSION you can be.

The trail is yours and it is mine, to pave, and while we share the trip with numerous travelers, the journey is ours alone and what we invest in this life will bring us a return today and for the rest of our life. The Question is What Will that Return Be? The answer comes very "simply" from. . what we have invested.

WHERE IS IT HIDDEN? I hope together, we find ourselves a little closer to that something special, to that place beyond our wildest dreams.

Celebrating "By Choice" this Gift we call "LIFE"

Make Every Moment Count!

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